Tuesday, April 12, 2016
Relationships according to one hair stylist
So today being my day off I went to the salon to get my hair cut. I am a quiet person and do not talk a lot and thankfully my stylist knows that I am this way. So while I am in the chair I am totally eavesdropping on the conversation between a hairstylist and her client. I know I should not have been but this is benefit to being a quiet person is that you can listen to others talk and see their true colors. The conversation they were having even made my stylist pause for a moment. They were talking about relationships and how they were looking for a good man. The client said she had two types of friends. Her one set would tell a guy that maybe interested that he does not make enough money for her. I was taken back by this. I have been married for 19 years. There has been times when I have been the main income into the home and so has my husband. I do not think that when looking for your partner that it should be based just on income. I believe it should be based on how he/she makes you feel. Now I do think that they should have career, job, or going to school. This doesn't mean that they should have to make four figures to win you over as a partner because a relationship based on wealth is not a healthy relationship. Relationships should be based on a mutual attraction, common interests, similar lifestyles is helpful,trust and being able to see yourself with this individual in 20 or 30 years down the road. The biggest thing is that this person should be able to make you laugh and smile even when there are times that you don't want to. Laughter goes along way in a relationship. My own relationship has had its ups and downs but even after 19 years we are still in love and going strong. We always tell each other that we love them even if we are mad at the other.
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